The Internalized Oppression of a “Pick me girl”
This week when reading the Kendi excerpt, Kendi recounts a speech he gave filled with internalized oppression. Generally, when people think of internalized oppression it refers to negative beliefs about oneself. However, Kendi was describing negative thoughts about people of his own race, excluding himself. Despite the fact that he was living proof not all African-American youths prize athletic ability over intelligence, he still believed these racist stereotypes about his own people. Another example of this type of type of internalized oppression, is the idea of the “pick me girl”. The “pick me girl” is an expression coined by social media that describes women who seek to put down other women in order to make themselves more desirable to men. Similarly to Kendi, they distance themselves from other females and further perpetuate sexist stereotypes. They are often known to describe themselves as “quirky”, or say things like “I’m not like other girl...